Sometimes the "I would love to: see that person, do that course, get that body I really want, spend time by the ocean or out in nature, travel to that picture postcard place etc" . Becomes a distant memory. How sad is that? How sad it is to substitute
I used to worry so much about other people and their thoughts and their life. And I was only wasting time and hurting myself. I have come to realize that I am better than that and I don't have any reason to worry about other peoples lives.