"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.
Have you ever heard of the terrifying stories of terrible dates from online sites? Why not go on a date and actually enjoy it! These tips will help you be comfortable with online dating and help with awkward first date situations!