He might think I am over reacting. But couldn't understand for he was the one who caused all these. I hope you will forever be in denial, so one day you will lose everything you hold dear, then only you will understand my pain and abused feeling.
This is just the most accurate way to describe how/why the smear campaign begins. So very accurate! Surviving an emotionally abusive mother with narcissistic personality disorder and an enabling father and siblings
Narcissists are extremely sneaky. They will use your reactions to what they have done to you, in an effort to make you look crazy. They do this by telling others only half of the actual occurrence, and conveniently leave out their actions.
My ex-narc actually tried telling me he couldn't take my abuse any more! He was evil in every way possible, but when I finally stood up for myself after years of being bullied and terrorized, I was abusing him. Deflection at it's finest!
One of the hardest decisions you can make is to remove yourself from a toxic relationship with your parent. At some point you have to acknowledge the verbal and mental abuse they put you through even if they refuse to take accountability and move on.