When I saw this I thought of Syndrome from Incredibles. I thinking along the lines of, so you would marry Syndrome? Like, didn't he die? Why would this be a relatable thing people would pin? Anyway, I thought that was funny.
It's what is holographically put in front of you. Slow things down and see what is really there. It's depressing I know, but it's the truth. Do you want to keep going through the incarnation stage just to exist? Or escape