Ah yes, as opposed to just a wonderfully intelligent woman. Ever hear anyone refer to a man as dangerous for being well-read? However I believe it is that the well-read men with abusive tendencies that make the most dangerous abusers of all.
I've got mine. ryan gosling would build me bookshelves. "hey girl, i know how much you love old wood and antique windows so i used them to build a bookshelf to hold the things you love. yes, there's room for me.