When you are going through something hard and wonder where God is, remember the teacher is always quiet during a test. But God is ALWAYS quiet.
I am absolutely HORRIBLE at this! Need to work on this
It's okay to feel shitty, so okay! Sometimes things are just shitty, life is not perfect. And if there's too much shitty stuff in your life: change it or leave it. Best recipe to get happy again, worked really well for me.