"When you ask me what I am doing today, and I say "nothing". It does not mean O am free. It means I am doing nothing". - This is a great quote! Instead of having to come up with a story of what I really am doing.
One of my all time favorite Gilmore Girls quotes ever. Ultimatums though scary, you shouldn't be afraid to give someone. Some men are sneaky and will continue to have their cake and eat it too if you let them.