Stop looking for a partner. Focus on your goals and rebuilding your life. The right person will eventually find their way to you. Far too often people are always searching for that perfect someone, but until you place the focus on improving yourself and your situation it may not be possible to find the right person. Many people are surprised to find that when they stop searching and start to work on themselves instead the right person suddenly appears. Until you learn to love yourself, be ...
Yes, he cleaned up nicely not because I made him but because he wanted to be a better man for himself, for me, and for his family. I just helped him along the way, I showed him another way to live. He knows I'm worth it and I deserve a good man. So I didn't polish a piece of shit, I shined a diamond in the rough.
I don't understand why people rush from one relationship to another with no break in between. They won't even be fully divorced and already involved with someone else. Why don't you take the time to heal and get strong first. Find happiness within yourself and you won't always be looking for someone else to make you happy.