No wise words, but a wise decision-maker: When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
Ten Things to Give Up in Exchange for Happiness Give up caring what other people think of you. Give up trying to please everyone. Give up participating in gossip. Let go of insecurity! Stop taking everything personally.