Rely on the same old needle point philosophy of forgive and forget. And even if a couple can manage the forgiveness, has any really conquered the forgetness? How do we forgive if we can't forget?" Sex and the City
One of my favorite quotes from Sex In The City. If you're familiar with the the series then you'll know that Carrie thinks/writes this after Mr. Big leaves on a trip without her because he's unsure, or scared of a serious commitment .