When we meet a great guy, we women often try to do, do, do whatever we can to make him see what a great catch we are. We’ll go out of our way to do things for a man, plan outings together, and sometimes even say yes to things he wants that go against what we want. That's because we've been taught that we should make an effort to show him what a real find we are, right? But actually, we shouldn't! The fantastic thing about being a woman is that getting a man to see how wonderful you are doesn’t i